Break Destructive Patterns
Identify the habits, fears, and motivations shaping your decisions, relationships, and results
Strengthen Relationships
Build healthier communication, deeper connection, and navigate conflict more effectively
Respond instead of react
Develop emotional resilience and practical tools for handling pressure
Live with purpose
Gain clarity, direction, and confidnece in your next steps
Why enneagram forge?
This is about refinement.
The Enneagram is used here the way a master craftsman uses a blueprint or a blacksmith uses heat and pressure: to expose weak points, reveal patterns, and reshape what has been malformed through fear, pride, insecurity, control, avoidance, anger, shame, or self-protection. It is not your identity. It is a diagnostic tool that helps uncover the habits, motivations, and reactive loops that quietly shape your decisions, relationships, leadership, faith, and daily life.
Who benefits the most from the Forge?
Men and women tired of repeating the same cycles
Christians who want practical spiritual growth instead of shallow inspiration
Leaders who want greater self-awareness and stronger decision-making
Married couples seeking healthier communication and deeper understanding
People who feel stuck between who they are and who they know they are meant to become
Coaching Packages
“UNCOVER”
Uncover is the starting point of the Enneagram Forge process.
“Reforge”
Reforge is where awareness becomes transformation.
“Through the Fire”
This is the entire 3 part process, designed to completely realign you, with who you are meant to be.
About the Forge
The process is direct, intentional, and practical.
Clients are not simply told who they are. They are taught how to recognize their reactions in real time, interrupt unhealthy patterns, and build healthier responses through consistent practice. The work focuses heavily on personal responsibility, emotional maturity, discipline, integrity, and spiritual formation.
Enneagram Forge is especially different because it rejects the common misuse of the Enneagram as a permission slip. Many people use personality systems to justify behavior:
- “I’m just intense.”
- “I avoid conflict because that’s my type.”
- “I’m controlling, because I care.”
- “I shut down because I need space.”
Enneagram Forge challenges those narratives directly.
The Enneagram should expose blind spots, not protect them.
This coaching asks harder questions:
- What if the pattern you defend is the very thing holding you back?
- What if your strengths become weaknesses when driven by fear?
- What if your personality has become armor instead of stewardship?
The purpose is not condemnation. The purpose is clarity that leads to growth.
Testimonials
“I’ve taken personality tests before and always thought they were interesting but mostly useless. Reforge was completely different. Ben didn’t just help me understand my type, he helped me understand why I kept repeating the same patterns in my marriage, with my children, and in my faith. For the first time, I had practical tools to change instead of just more information.”
Eric, Type 1
“Before working with Ben, I spent a lot of time avoiding things I knew I needed to address. I wouldn’t have called it avoidance at the time. I told myself I was being patient, keeping the peace, or waiting for the right moment. But in reality, I was often putting off difficult conversations, minimizing my own needs, and settling for less than what I knew God was calling me to”
Amanda, Type 9
“The greatest breakthrough wasn’t learning my type, it was finally understanding how my patterns were affecting my spouse. Ben gave us language for conversations we’d struggled to have for years. Our communication improved because we stopped reacting and started understanding”
Heather, Type 2
“Before Ben, I spent years explaining and rationalizing my behavior. After completing my sessions, I learned how to take ownership of it. The process helped me move from reacting to responding, from drifting… to acting intentionally, and from simply knowing myself to actually growing.”
Kenzie, Type 5
“Ben has a way of asking questions that get beneath the surface without making you feel judged. He challenged me to stop hiding behind comfort and start taking responsibility for areas where I had become passive. Some of the conversations were uncomfortable, but they were exactly what I needed.
The biggest change has been in my confidence and my relationships. I’m speaking up more, setting healthier boundaries, and addressing issues directly instead of hoping they’ll work themselves out. More importantly, I feel like I’m growing in alignment with who God created me to be rather than simply trying to keep everyone around me happy.”
Sarah, Type 9
“I came in feeling frustrated because I knew I wasn’t where I wanted to be, but I couldn’t figure out why. Ben helped me uncover the fears and assumptions driving many of my decisions. The process was challenging, but it gave me clarity I hadn’t found anywhere else”
Jessica, Type 6
“I’ve attended plenty of Bible studies, conferences, and leadership trainings, but The Forge connected self-awareness and spiritual growth in a way I’d never experienced before. Ben challenged me to take ownership of my blind spots and gave me practical tools to respond differently. My wife noticed the change before I did. I’m more present, less reactive, and much more intentional in how I lead my family and business. His coaching didn’t just give me insight, it gave me a framework for growth and I can’t thank him enough.”
Brad, Type 1